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A WOMAN who fell out of love with her husband has shared his surprising reaction when she informed him that their marriage had ended.
Swingers Jess and Mike Miller achieved significant success as adult content creators, earning impressive amounts each month as one of the country's leading couples on OnlyFans.
Jess and Mike Miller announced their separation earlier this year, after 11 years of marriageCredit: jess_mike_miller/Instagram
The couple was among the top creators on OnlyFans, earning a remarkable amount each monthCredit: SWNS
They were also active swingers and had their first threesome on televisionCredit: jess_mike_miller/Instagram
Jess discussed the split during a podcast interview, mentioning that she fell out of love with her partnerCredit: tiktok/@notasweplanned_podcast
They were recognized for their adventurous lifestyle and enthusiasm for swinging, having their first-ever threesome on television during the Channel 4 show Open House: The Great Sex Experiment in 2022.
Consequently, their decision to end their 11-year marriage earlier this year surprised both friends and fans.
However, Jess has recently opened up more about the breakdown of their relationship, including the moment she realized she was finished with the marriage.
“I was crying and I told him, I don’t know what my future looks like,” Jess recounted on the Not As We Planned podcast.
“It’s sad, but I find him dull.
“I knew my feelings for him had changed, and he basically – he didn’t comfort me, didn’t do anything, just laughed if anything.”
Jess continued to explain that during the breakup, there were “many moments of laughter” when Mike would chuckle at her comments, responding with “let’s sort it out.”
“Do you not understand that?” Jess added.
“I’m at a point now where I’m so unhappy, and all you’re doing is laughing in my face, saying let’s sort it out.
“That’s not sorting it out in my view. I need more from you, I need you to take me on dates, I need to feel loved, and I just didn’t sense that.”
“No dates. No effort. No comfort. That’s when I knew it was the Final Straw,” Jess expressed as she shared a video clip of the podcast discussion on TikTok.
In another part of the interview, Jess mentioned that finances were also a significant factor in their breakup.
“I do believe that money was the downfall of our relationship,” she reflected.
“Absolutely. I always told him I could return to having nothing easily. But he couldn’t.”
She added that prior to announcing their separation, Mike had moved out for a week, but they briefly reconciled afterward.
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