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A WOMAN has cautioned others against becoming a stay-at-home mother as her husband has left her with nothing.
Mum-of-two, Courtney, who resides in the US, took to social media to share her experience and how depending on a partner for financial support can lead to unexpected consequences.
Courtney revealed she was now left with no money after her husband asked for a divorceCredit: tiktok.com/@cortneygetsfit
She revealed she hadn’t worked in over ten years and had no income to support herselfCredit: tiktok.com/@cortneygetsfit
In the video, Courtney sat alone in her car as she described it as the ‘scariest’ experience of her life.
She shared: “So, you all want to know the scariest thing happening to me right now? Being a married woman at 37, with two kids aged five and seven, after being a mum for over ten years.
“I have no income, I have no savings; I rely on my husband’s credit card and finances.
“And two weeks ago, he informed me that he wants to proceed with a divorce.”
She explained that she had one card for her daily expenses, which, although registered in her name, was paid off by her husband.
Now, he had told her he was about to cut her off and instructed her to transfer all automatic payments to another card.
She said he warned her that she needed to start using her own card from now on.
“What card?” she asked. “I don’t have another card; that is my card.
“It’s terrifying. I feel like a little girl who needs her mother because I don’t know how to take care of myself.
“I’m at a loss for what to do; it’s just terrifying.”
She captioned her post: “No one prepares you for how financially vulnerable stay-at-home mothers are.”
The video went viral on her TikTok account @ cortneygetsfit with over 7.6 million views and 700k likes.
Many users commented, with some asserting they had been warning women for years not to fall into such a lifestyle.
One individual wrote: “I feel like women have been shouting this from the rooftops for years, but many stay-at-home moms ignore it because they think it won't happen to them.”
Courtney responded: “You’re absolutely right; I was one of them. I never thought this could happen until it did.”
What is a Trad Wife?
A "trad wife" (short for traditional wife) is a woman who opts for an ultra-traditional role in marriage, focusing on homemaking while her husband works.
This trend draws inspiration from the 1950s housewife ideal.
Many ‘trad wives’ choose to dress in attire popular during that era (think floral dresses and traditional cardigans).
The values embraced by trad wives often reflect strict Christian beliefs.
Trad wives assert that they are not compelled into this lifestyle; instead, they believe it is their purpose to be homemakers.
This trend, which has gained traction on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram, romanticizes a bygone era while largely overlooking the economic challenges faced by families and mothers today.
Another commenter stated: “This is why being a stay-at-home mom is NOT advisable! Ladies, be independent.”
“This should serve as a warning to all women; being a stay-at-home mom is a risky choice…” wrote a third.
Meanwhile, a fourth commented: “If this isn’t the perfect warning for women contemplating this lifestyle, I don’t know what is.”
“He owes you half; consult a lawyer,” asserted a fifth.
Another added: “He owes you half; get a lawyer.”
Frequently Asked Questions
Why is being a stay-at-home mom considered risky?
Being a stay-at-home mom can lead to financial vulnerability, as demonstrated by Courtney's experience. If the relationship ends, there may not be sufficient income or savings to support oneself.
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