HE RIPPED off my clothes and threw me on the bed, planting kisses all over my body.
He kept moving lower and lower and I thought, “What’s going on here?”
Sun Sexpert Georgie Culley says she’s inundated with messages from guys who have a particular fetish
Indulging a kink can be fun… but play safe
Then he pulled off my stockings, put my foot in his mouth, and started .
I have to admit, I burst out laughing – I’d never been with anyone with a foot fetish before. But surprisingly, it actually felt pretty good and was a definite turn-on.
This frisky encounter came to mind when I received a letter from a reader this week about her partner’s foot fetish – and how things went horribly wrong when they tried it.
I’m and in my no-holds-barred column this week, I reveal how to explore a foot fetish – and have your partner falling head over heels for you!
Q. My boyfriend has a foot fetish, and while it’s a bit outside my comfort zone, I really wanted to please him because he means a lot to me.
I’ve never dated anyone with this kind of fetish before, so I wasn’t sure where to begin.
I told him I was up for it and he immediately lunged in and started licking and sucking my toes – but I’m ridiculously ticklish.
I flinched so hard I accidentally kicked him in the face and gave him a bloody nose.
It was toe-curlingly embarrassing (pun fully intended) – and we ended up in A&E!
I’d like to explore it and give it another go – any tips on how we can have more success next time?
Georgie says: “Having a foot fetish is actually pretty common – I get inundated with DMs about it, usually from men.
Like any kink, it’s important to start slowly and know your boundaries before diving in — unless you fancy a trip to A&E!
It’s great, though, that you weren’t scarred for life and are willing to give it another go.
I’ve also dated a y and being teased by my toes! At first, I was a bit shocked, but it actually turned out to be a lot of fun.
He loved sucking my toes, which I thought I’d hate since I get so ticklish – but surprisingly, it was a real turn on.
I flinched so hard I accidentally kicked him in the face
Sun reader
It makes sense, too. Feet are an erogenous zone, packed with sensitive nerve endings, especially on the soles. Massaging or even sucking them can be incredibly erotic.
Foot worship falls under the BDSM umbrella, and those with this fetish usually prefer one of two things – clean, well-groomed feet or deliberately dirty ones.
Personally, I couldn’t handle cheesy Wotsits in my face, but each to their own!
Sun Sexpert Georgie says washing one another’s feet in a soapy bath can be a huge turn on
Some people enjoy smelling their partner’s feet, having their face massaged with them, sucking toes – or even being walked over in heels.
There are no hard-and-fast rule when it comes to foot play or kinks in general, it’s all about personal preference.
But done properly, foot play can be or both partners. And I’ll show you how.
Talk, talk talk
Like any fetish or fantasy, communication is key. Before diving in, be clear about what you do and don’t like, and what’s completely off-limits.
Be honest with yourself – and your partner – to ensure play goes smoothly. And always agree on a safe word so either of you can let your partner know if it stops being fun.
Scrub up
Like any kind of sex or oral play, cleanliness is key – but it’s especially important if you’re indulging in foot play. No one wants sweaty, smelly trotters in their face!
It’s also worth paying attention to your skin and toenails. I’d recommend getting a pedicure to keep your feet soft, smooth and well-groomed – no rough heels or talon-like toenails.
Unless, of course, that’s their fetish!
Start slowly
If you’ve never indulged in this kind of play before, you might not know your tickle threshold – so to avoid any disasters, start slowly. Explore different to see what feels good.
Try a sensual foot massage using a special oil massage candle – you can pour the melted oil over the body from head to toe and slowly rub it in.
Not only is it super erotic, but using oil – or even a bit of lube – on your feet makes your touch smoother and far less tickly.
Surprise your partner with pics of your feet in stockings
Look out for cues
The soles of our feet are packed with nerves, making them incredibly sensitive. For some, this is a huge turn on – for others, it can be overwhelming.
Pay close attention to your partner’s preferences: do they enjoy being touched or licked? Do they prefer focus on the toes?
Sext foot porn
If it’s your partner’s kink, why not surprise them with some saucy pics…of your feet? Slip into strapless killer heels or try tights or stockings – many men with this fetish have told me they love all of these.
Soapy seduction
Sharing a warm bath and washing each other’s feet can be incredibly erotic – and a perfect, gentle introduction to foot play.
Afterwards, pamper your partner with a home pedicure by moisturising their feet and even painting their nails.
Try foot-play
Who says foreplay has to stop at hands, mouths, and toys? If your partner is into foot play, they might want to worship your feet – stroking, kissing, licking and even sucking your toes.
They could also enjoy having parts of their face massaged with your feet, giving them a scent of your soles too.
Some might even enjoy a foot rub down below – but go slowly at first, as it can take a bit of practice!
