AS our Ultimate Summer Sex Survey reveals, just 16 per cent have had a threesome or group sex. Hairdresser Tanya Murom, 36, from Leeds, West Yorkshire, is among those who will be attending sex festivals this summer with her husband Ash, 33…

WHEN our friend asked us to have a , we immediately said no, fearing it would spell the end of our friendship.

Tanya and Ash MarumTanya Murom, 36, will be attending sex festivals this summer with her husband Ash Credit: Glen Minikin Tanya and Ash MarumTanya and Ash also regularly attend swinging clubs and holidays across Europe to have sex with other couples Credit: Glen Minikin

But the invitation planted a seed of curiosity that would go on to completely transform our life.

After we declined our friend’s offer in 2019, it got us talking, and Ash and I both admitted we fancied trying the sex club scene as a couple.

We visited our first club that , where we watched other people have sex.

Since then we haven’t looked back and have become more adventurous.

We have had sex while other people watched in what is known as the ‘viewing area’ at a festival or a viewing room in a .

The first time we tried it, we were both nervous, but afterwards we felt amazing.

NINTCHDBPICT001018528040Open communication is key, and we always check in with each other during events, says Tanya Credit: Kennedy News Sexy, steamy, lovemaking sessions74 per cent of people in our Summer Sex Survey have never had a threesome or attended a sex party Credit: Getty

We now regularly attend , clubs and across Europe where we have sex with other couples.

And we’re not alone, as 18 per cent of people revealed they have had a experience or a full-blown group session in the Summer Sex Survey.

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Summer is when all the festivals here and in Europe occur. The is great; you can work on your tan and enjoy meeting new people.

We also run events which introduce newbies to swinging clubs, and we have a channel helping curious couples learn more about the lifestyle.

Many people assume that swingers’ clubs and festivals are shrouded in mystery and stigma.

While that perception still exists – 74 per cent of people in have never had a threesome or attended a sex party – the reality is often very different from what they imagine.

An illustration showing survey results about sex and summer, including responses to "Does the heatwave make you fancy an outdoor romp?" and "What is it about the summer that gets your motor running?" A collage of survey results regarding holiday behavior and perks, with a black and white photo of a couple walking in the ocean at the bottom.

We have met people from all walks of life, including couples, retirees, doctors, lawyers and shop owners.

We’re a young couple and people like our no-nonsense approach. Open communication is key, and we always check in with each other during events.

And the best part is that when we get home, we have what we call reclaim sex, which is always hot.

We have fun together, but always come back together. The trust we have now is stronger than ever.

Illustration of a survey about sexual positions and experimentalism, showing that 54% prefer missionary and 43% occasionally try new positions. Infographic displaying statistics from a sex survey. An illustration of a sex survey showing statistics on threesomes, bucket list events, open relationships, and "free pass" rules.

SEXY SUMMER SECRETS

BRITS are ready to turn up the heat this summer as a sizzling new wave of bedroom adventure sweeps across the nation.

The explosive findings are part of our ultimate Summer Sex Survey, which reveals exactly what gets the country going when the mercury rises. Sunshine is proving to be the ultimate aphrodisiac, with over a third of randy punters confessing that a heatwave gets them feeling way more romantic than usual.

From cheeky outdoor romps to tearing up the relationship rulebook, the British public is ditching the old traditions to hunt down hot summer flings and experimental new positions. Here, we delve deep into the sizzling results of our most revealing poll yet.

The Sun’s poll of 2,000 adults reveals the nation’s wildest summer bedroom secrets

The Bedroom Clock

How often are you actually getting it on?

  • 30% Several times a week
  • 23% About once a week
  • 21% A few times a month
  • 10% Less than once a month
  • 7% Exactly once a month
  • 5% Every. Single. Day.
  • 4% Not telling

What’s your prime time for bedroom action?

  • 32% Late at night
  • 24% Cheeky evening romp
  • 19% Whenever, go with the flow
  • 13% Love a bit of morning glory
  • 6% Save it up for wild weekends
  • 5% Appreciate afternoon delight
  • 1% Only when on holiday

Hitting the spot

How regularly do you actually hit the big O?

  • 34% Often
  • 33% Every time
  • 21% Only sometimes
  • 6% It’s a rare treat
  • 4% Not telling
  • 2% Never get there

How easy do you find it to talk dirty and tell your partner what you like?

  • 42% Fairly comfortable
  • 39% Very comfortable
  • 13% Not very comfortable
  • 4% Not at all comfortable
  • 2% Too shy to say

The heatwave effect

When we asked if the heatwave made you fancy an outdoor romp, most people said it made no difference to their sex life, the remainder were split

  • 55% Less likely, it’s too hot to get sweaty
  • 35% Could be tempted or are well up for it
  • 10% Can’t say/won’t say

Does a bit of sun get you feeling extra affectionate?

  • 63% Yes, feel more amorous
  • 22% Sticky heat is a real turnoff
  • 9% God yes, strip and go
  • 6% Just aren’t sure

What is it about the summer that gets your motor running? (Multiple-choice option)

  • 70% The sunny weather puts them in a much better mood
  • 69% Blame it entirely on the warmer weather
  • 47% Because we are away on holiday or travelling, so more relaxed
  • 35% Love having more free time on their hands
  • 25% Down to more socialising and summer boozing
  • 2% Have other secret summer triggers
  • 1% Say none of this applies to them

Holiday wild child

When you jet off on holiday, does your inner wild child come out?

  • 32% Bedroom behaviour stays the same
  • 31% Let their hair down
  • 29% Become spontaneous holiday romantics
  • 5% Are way more cautious when abroad
  • 3% Just stay at home

Which of these juicy summer perks do you look forward to most? (Multiple choice option)

  • 44% More quality time with partner
  • 35% Exciting new experiences
  • 28% Being way more physically affectionate
  • 21% The thrill of meeting new people

Screen time

Ever watched adult films?

  • 66% Confess to having watched a bit of blue content
  • 29% Claim they have never even peeked
  • 5% Wouldn’t share their browser history

If you do watch porn solo, how often?

  • 55% As an infrequent treat
  • 24% Watch every week
  • 13% Have a monthly date
  • 5% Hardcore daily users
  • 3% None of our business

Got any toys hidden in the bedside drawer?

  • 57% Say their bedroom is strictly au naturel
  • 40% Have a buzzing collection of gadgets
  • 3% Keep the drawer locked

Have you ever sent a cheeky, flashing nude to someone?

  • 66% Swear they have never sent an intimate pic
  • 31% Have proudly hit send on a dirty selfie
  • 3% Hiding behind the lens

Bedroom Gymnastics

What’s your go-to position when it comes to sex (Multiple choice options)

  • 54% Classic missionary
  • 48% Wild doggy style
  • 32% Cowgirl position with her on top
  • 18% Flip it around for a reverse cowgirl
  • 9% Have other gymnastic favourites
  • 6% None of the above float their boat
  • 13% Too shy to tick a box

Are you a creature of habit or a wild experimentalist?

  • 43% Occasionally try new positions
  • 39% Just stick to what they know well
  • 12% Wild thrill-seekers who regularly mix up positions
  • 6% Prefer not to say how they play it

Spicy parties & three-ways

Have you ever ticked any of these cheeky events off your bucket list? (Multiple choice option)

  • 74% Total angels who have never been to any of them
  • 12% Hit up a proper singles or dating party
  • 10% Mingled at an organised singles mixer
  • 8% High-pressure environment of speed dating
  • 8% Put themselves out there at a matchmaking event
  • 6% Stripped off at a proper sex party
  • 4% Let it all hang out at a sex festival
  • 3% Checked into an exclusive sex retreat
  • 2% Keeping their scandalous event history secret

Have you ever welcomed a threesome?

  • 79% Stick to the two’s company rule
  • 18% Thrrouple experience or casual group session
  • 3% Tight-lipped on headcounts

Have you ever tried an open relationship with a bit on the side?

  • 90% Strictly one partner only
  • 8% Have had open relationships
  • 2% Prefer not to tell us if they share

If you are “open” does the ‘free pass’ rule only apply on holiday?

  • 63% Yes, at home we’re a closed couple
  • 36% Open-love policy is 24/7
  • 1% Wouldn’t spill the holiday gossip