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I called out a ‘mean girl’ mum to her husband at the school gates over our WhatsApp drama – but people say I was ‘harsh’

Published on May 12, 2025 at 09:42 PM

A MUM has shared how she confronted a fellow school mum’s behaviour by calling her out to her husband over a WhatsApp group drama.

Posting on TikTok under the name ‘paleandinteresting’, she explained her experience with the

Woman in pajamas discussing not being in school WhatsApp groups.
A mum has revealed how she dealt with a situation with mums at the school gates

The video, which was shared five days ago, has 387.7k views and has caused a big discussion amongst other parents.

The mum explained that she wasn’t part of the group chat that involved several mums who organised social events like nights out and days out.

However, she soon discovered the existence of the chat at a gathering, where mums and kids were getting together.

The mum claimed that the group’s ringleader invited her friend to the event directly in front of her, explaining that she is going to “put it all in the mum’s chat.”;;

But despite standing right there, the invitation was not extended to the mum.

Later on the same mum again mentioned the invite to her friend, commenting reminding that she is going to put all the information into the “mum’s chat.”;;

This was the first time she learned about the existence of the WhatsApp group, and her friend, who was new to the school, had recently been added.

The next day, she shared her feelings with her friend, saying she didn’t appreciate being excluded and found the behaviour to be ““

And while she wasn’t interested in joining the group, she admitted feeling upset about the situation.

As they were talking, the husband of the mum in question joined the conversation and asked who they were talking about.

To which the mum explained the situation and bluntly said how it was his wife.

The husband defended his wife, claiming: “oh, she’s not very good in new situations. She can sometimes be a bit shy.”;;

However, the mum countered that his wife didn’t seem shy when inviting her friend in front of her twice while deliberately excluding her, adding that it was “mean girl”;; behaviour.

Later that evening, her friend received a message from the mum asking her to invite Amy to the group to see if she wanted to attend the Christmas night out.

I am so glad I don’t have to do that any more

TikTok comment

When her friend showed her the message, she responded: “Don’t bother, I’m not interested.”;;

Her video gained 1,120 comments as many people wanted to share their .

One wrote: “School mums are nasty. And they wonder where children learn to bully and exclude others.”;;

But another added: “You were wrong. These group chats usually have 30+ people in them, how do you know that she didn’t know you were in there?

Been there and experienced the same as you

TikTok comment

“What stopped you from speaking up directly to the woman who offended you?”;;

Whilst a third commented: “I am so glad I don’t have to do that any more. Those mean women usually hate their lives.”;;

And a fourth added: “Well done you. School mums are the absolute worst.

“Been there and experienced the same as you. Don’t let it get to you.”;;

But another said: “A bit harsh on the dad. He obviously spoke to his wife after and she extended the invite.”;;

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