HANGING up the phone after her landlord told her he’d be selling her home, Melanie Bentley-Moore looked out at the pouring rain and decided to leave the UK.
The mum-of-one, from , has now packed her bags to move across the world. Her rent will be half of what she pays back home, and she can eat out for just £1 a meal.
Melanie Bentley-Moore realised she had to leave the UK for good in favour of somewhere more affordable Credit: Kennedy Newsand Media
The astrologist, 33, has sold all her belongings and will be jetting off to Asia with her son to live their ‘best lives’ Credit: Kennedy Newsand Media
“I got a call from my landlord saying he’s selling, and I said, ‘Do you know what? I’m just going to leave the UK,'” Melanie, 33, tells the Sun.
“I’m scared, but obviously I’m doing it anyway.”
She has booked flights to in early September, and is staying at a friend’s house until then.
Explaining why she’s so desperate to move overseas, Melanie explained how Asia is much more affordable than the UK.
“Petrol, , , you notice the food goes up in price; however, they decreased the packaging sizes,” she says.
There, she explains, she will be paying significantly less rent, with a “really nice apartment” costing around £400 a month, compared to the £750 she pays at home, and an evening meal just £1.
Melanie left the UK in 2017 to travel around Asia, using as her main base.
But she returned to the UK two years later because she was missing chip shops and .
Then her son Antares was born in 2020, and she decided to stay.
But astrologist Melanie claims she has wanted to “get back out there” ever since.
And she has slammed those who also yearn to leave the UK for sunnier shores, but just “talk” about it, and never move.
She has now sold all her belongings, and she and her son will be jetting off to to live their “best lives”.
“Here it feels like we’re surviving; however, I know in Asia, where I’m heading, I’d be able to thrive instead,” she says.
“I wouldn’t get anxiety paying for a food shop, the contrast is massive.
“Your goes a long way.
“I could stay on the beach somewhere, and it would cost half my rent.
“When I used to live in Vietnam, I wasn’t really doing food shops there because it’s so cheap to eat out. I was having my tea for £1.
“After looking now, it will be around £400 rent per month, that’s for a really nice apartment.”
But the isn’t the only reason she’s .
“The energy here just feels heavy, it’s dark,” she says.
“There’s no room to grow. The majority of people are miserable because of all the stuff that’s going on, the cost of living, everything’s rising.
“I just don’t feel alive here, and I think that’s not just a ‘me’ problem either; everyone that I’m speaking to just feels soulless.
“I’m just bored, I can’t live ‘‘, I can’t just continue this way.
“Just hearing everyone else complain, that weakens my spirit.
But Melanie is not only leaving because of the cost of living, she reckons everyone ‘feels soulless’ Credit: Kennedy Newsand Media
The single mum also wants to show her son ‘real life’, and she prefers the values in Asia Credit: Kennedy Newsand Media
“Most people are miserable, and they’re always complaining; it seeps into everything.
“It’s like an infinite cycle of ‘rinse and repeat’ complaining. It’s just a feeling, I just don’t feel alive. It sucks the soul out of me.”
Explaining how she chose her destination, Melanie says “I lived in Asia for two years, so I’m very familiar with that area of the world.
“I was only meant to go for three months, but I ended up staying out there for a couple of years, travelling around Asia.
“My main base was Vietnam, I did some English teaching out there and came back home because it’s something random, I really wanted chippy and Nando’s.”
According to the single mum, she also wants to show her son “real life”, and she prefers the values in Asia.
And she has taken Antares out of , as she prefers education systems where children start school later.
Discussing how she believes the move will positively impact her son, she says: “I’m going to do some work and volunteering with him. There is no better learning than .
“He’s only five, I prefer the Scandinavian way.
“In Scandinavia, there’s a reason why their children are the happiest and most successful because they don’t start school till they’re seven.
“With the values and stuff, life’s just better over there. It’s slower, it’s sunny, the scenes are beautiful, and you realise there is so much more to life than what I’m used to. It’s a completely different culture as well.”
Melanie has also said that she wants people to “follow their hearts”.
“It’s no good talking, there’s a lot of talkers out there – I ‘do’.
“I refuse to stay here in a life of struggle and misery. The energy is dark, it’s always raining, it’s grey.”
“I feel so soulless and miserable in this place, and I’m not doing it anymore, and I thought f*** this.”
“Life is for living and feeling joy and love and wonder, I don’t feel any of that here.
“There is something about energy-wise that is just so off.”



