Towie's Elma Pazar Declares Her Friendship with Co-Star is Finished for Good, Confesses to Still Holding a Grudge

TOWIE star Elma Pazar has confirmed that her friendship with Harry Derbidge is officially over and she has no plans of reconciling.

It comes after The Sun revealed the truth behind their fallout, with moles claiming one is ‘sacrificing’ their pal for a place on the ‘cut-throat’ show.

Elma, 34, and Harry, 32, fell out nearly a year ago after he accused her of spreading gossip while on their cast away trip in Vietnam.

Harry ended up reconciling with his ex-boyfriend Joe Blackman and Junaid Ahme but the news had been leaked to his cousin Amy Childs, before he could tell her himself.

A furious Harry then branded Elma a ‘mole’ and said he felt betrayed – saying he hadn’t trusted her for months, leading them to unfollow each other on social media and taking swipes on social media at each other.

And now Elma has insisted she will never reconcile with Harry – saying their friendship is ‘over’ for good.

Joining Billie Faiers on the You Alright Hun? podcast, Elma said: “

When asked what the latest was with her and Harry, Elma said: “We were really close, at one point we were inseparable, I was on the phone to Harry all the time, we lived through a lot together – we lived through Harry’s worst days together.

“I’d say it was extremely hard for Harry but it was hard for both of us because you do take on your friends problems.

“You’ll see, but I’d say we’re taking steps forward, but I would say there are no more steps.

“I tried and I’m sure he would say he tried.

“I just think there has been too many things been said – I’m a good grudge holder in that sense.

“I don’t care enough, I care too much and once I don’t care enough then there’s no coming back from that.

“It’s like I’m mourning and then I’m over it. You grieve it and then you get over it.”

Billie then asked if there was a possibility that their friendship could ever get back on track.

Elma said: “I think it was going in that direction and obviously Albania was nice but it was still very much like co-existing and keeping each other at arms length.

“I was quite stern and had no intention of making up with Harry anyway, so for me it probably didn’t upset me as much as he would have wanted me to be upset by it.

“It is what it is.”

Just a few weeks ago, about the fallout.

When former podcast host Denise Van Outen asked Elma: “What about your relationship with Harry at the minute?

“Non existent,” responded Elma, who denies she was ever the one to spread any gossip.

She continued to detail how close they were previously, sharing: “Do you know what it is? I was devastated.

“It was more so, I couldn’t believe it was happening to me with someone I spent, over the last two years, 1500 hours of my life that I can’t get back. we were ridiculously close.

“When you watch things back and you see things you’re like, ‘oh, ok, so that’s how things panned out’.

“Initially, I believed that Harry had got this in his head because Amy had told him I was passing on information.

“But if you watch the show, this series, it’s him instigating this.”

Denise then probed: “You feel like he was repeatedly throwing you under the bus?”

“I think he had it in for me, I think there’s underlying issues there,” she agreed.

Since the fallout, both Harry and Elma have unfollowed one another on Instagram.