A group of three women in a polyamorous relationship have hit back at trolls who claim they’re like a cult.
Tavia revealed she had two official girlfriends, Quasi and Diamond, but says she is the ringleader.
Tavia (centre), Quasi (left, and Diamond (right), have been trolled for their poly relationshipCredit: YouTube/@lovedontjudgeshow
Some accuse Tavia of being a ringleader of a cultCredit: YouTube/@lovedontjudgeshow
Speaking with Love Don’t Judge , Tavia said: “My girlfriends are each other, but they are only officially in a relationship with me.”
Tavia first began a with Quasi after the pair met through social media and were upfront about the fact they both want a relationship.
As the pair were dating, they stumbled upon Diamond’s social media account and both were infatuated with her.
In a stroke of luck, Tavia ended up on an online stream with Diamond and the pair hit it off and decided to meet in person to start a romance.
Diamond added: “I met Tavia and we had a lot of time to be with each other. So when I met Quasi, it was more so, a confirmation that I could have the individual relationship with Tavia.
“But after meeting each other, we were like, you know, we also can date each other as well too.”
Now, all three of them live together and Tavia often takes charge of the day.
Tavia said: “A lot of people wonder if I’m manipulating the situation.
“I pick out their clothes, I like to give them a couple options, because they like to think they’re in charge. So, if you give them options, it makes them think that they are in charge.”
The girls added that they are often met with mean comments online, with some accusing them of being in a cult and Tavia being the ringleader.
Diamond explained: “They think that she is ringleader, forcing us to do everything.”
But the women insist that there isn’t one person in charge and they all pay attention to each others needs.
The video went viral on with over 20k views and people were quick to share their thoughts in the comments.
One person wrote: “My head is spinning from the confusion!”
Another commented: “The way the economy is I don’t see the problem.”
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.
According to You Gov , 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship.
“I think they are all so cute together. And as long as they are ALL happy, let them be happy enjoying life together,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “I love all their vibes!!”
Someone else added: “I like them! Seems like one of the healthier throuples I’ve seen.”
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