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PARENTING can undoubtedly be quite challenging, but one mother has faced criticism after expressing that her life was ‘ruined’ by having children.
In a TikTok video, the mother, known as Vick , lamented about how much more fulfilling her life was before she became a parent.
Vick took to social media to express her frustrations about the challenges of motherhoodCredit: TikTok/@vick1996x
The mother expressed her dissatisfaction with the mundane tasks, such as taking her children to the parkCredit: TikTok/@vick1996x
In the clip shared on her social media account, she encouraged others to consider remaining child-free.
“People should warn others not to do it because it’s literally ruined my life; I can’t do anything,” she expressed with frustration.
Rather than enjoying her time as she wishes, the mother stated that she spends her days taking her children to the park and engaging in “boring” activities like pushing them on swings.
She further reiterated her statement by questioning what anyone could possibly find enjoyable about parenting.
“What is enjoyable about having a screaming child who demands everything from you all the time? I don’t understand,” she said.
Her perspective sparked a divide among fellow users; some resonated with her sentiments while others criticized her for them.
One commenter on the viral post stated: “This conversation is too real for some to handle.”
Another agreed: “They aren’t a blessing; they’re a responsibility.”
“People will criticize you for this, but it’s so true,” a third user remarked.
Someone else added: “They can be terrible too; they often ignore you and just want to be on their phones in their rooms.”
However, some disagreed with the mother, sharing their positive experiences of parenthood.
“This comment section is really disheartening,” one person replied, “I’m genuinely enjoying motherhood. I feel sad for those who are not; my kids are wonderful and well-behaved.”
Another chimed in: “No offense, but what did you expect to be doing with a baby?”
Where to Find Parental Support
NSPCC – Provides support for parents, including guidance on getting babies to sleep, bonding with your baby, managing family life, dealing with bullying, and addressing parental mental health.
Action For Children – Offers a parenting program aimed at helping parents and children bond, learn, or overcome challenges.
Family Lives – Call free at 0808 800 2222 for emotional support, information, advice, and guidance on any aspect of parenting and family life.
“I don’t want children because I prefer to have the freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want, but surely if you knew that, you wouldn’t have them?”
Meanwhile, the comment section left some users more confused about their desire to have children.
“I’m really torn about whether to have kids or not, and I’m 27,” one admitted.
“I always wanted children, but as I get older, I’m just not so sure anymore,” another expressed.
Different Parenting Techniques
Here are some widely recognized methods:
Authoritative Parenting
This approach often fosters independence, self-discipline, and high self-esteem in children. It is considered one of the most effective techniques, where parents set clear expectations and enforce rules while also providing warmth and support.
Authoritarian Parenting
This style is the opposite of authoritative parenting, as it involves high demands with low responsiveness. Parents ensure obedience and often use punitive measures. While this can lead to disciplined behavior, it may also result in lower self-esteem and social skills in children.
Permissive Parenting
Permissive parents are indulgent and lenient, often acting more like friends than authority figures. They are highly responsive but lack demandingness, granting children a lot of freedom. This method can nurture creativity and a free-spirited nature but may also result in poor self-regulation and difficulties with authority.
Uninvolved Parenting
Uninvolved or neglectful parenting is characterized by low responsiveness and low demands. Parents in this category provide minimal guidance, nurturing, or attention, often leaving children feeling neglected, which can significantly impact their emotional and
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