A MAN with multiple wives and children who confesses to once being a “serial cheater”; says that polyamory is the only lifestyle that works for him.
Jame Barrett, 30, said that monogamous never worked out for him and he found that he was often cheating, sneaking around and hiding secrets from his girlfriends.
Jame Barrett has five wives – and he claims polyamory is the only thing that stops him cheating
Jame now has 11 kids from his five wives
Jame's ‘wives' are Cameron, 29, Jessica, 31, Reta, 28, Gabby, 30, and Diana, 30But by embracing – a relationship style that involves romantic or with , with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved – he has found peace.
Jame now has five ‘wives’: Cameron, 29, Jessica, 31, Reta, 28, Gabby, 30, and Diana, 30.
He has been with Cameron and Jessica for 13 years, Reta for eight years, Gabby for seven and Diana for four.
“I was always a cheater in my monogamous relationships,”; said Jame, a recording artist.
“I’ve always had a desire for variety. I’m like that, not just with my women.
“I also felt like I wasn’t being true and honest with myself, so I felt more limited and internally conflicted.
“Now I feel freer and more at peace.
“I also feel like I’ve grown and matured because I’ve had to.”;
Jame has 11 children: Aiden, 12, Abel, 11, Jessie, nine, Ayaan, six, Jett, five, JD, four, Sophia, four, Octavia, three, Bobby, two, Cleo, one, and 11-month-old Summer.
He said, “My poly relationship is so much better.
“But like any other relationship, it has its pros and cons. On the one hand, you have more spousal help.
“I always wanted a lot of kids so I can get that quicker.
“Also, the desire for variety is satisfied.
“On the other hand, it’s more work to lead five women and 11 kids, and it’s more work to be dependent on them, to be their emotional and financial support.
“But at the end of the day, I love them all deeply, and it has elevated me as a man.”;
Jame has full knowledge and consent of everyone involved
Jame said it has ‘elevated' him as a man to have so many kids
Recording artist Jame said it is a lot of work to support the family financially
Jame has 11 children: Aiden, 12, Abel, 11, Jessie, nine, Ayaan, six, Jett, five, JD, four, Sophia, four, Octavia, three, Bobby, two, Cleo, one, and 11-month-old SummerJame claims his wives, who he lives with in Los Angeles, California, love it too.
He said: “They say the pros are helping with the kids and not as much spousal stress.
“The cons are just that you get jealous, understandably, and that you don’t get as much one-on-one time as you’d like.
“It’s hard to get along sometimes.”;
But Jame believes that this way of life is “not new”; and that it has been a “construct since man began”;.
He has been with Jessica for 13 years. Pictured at prom
He's also been with Cameron for the same amount of time
Jame claims his wives love being part of the large arrangementJame added: “This is practised all over the world.
“But my family specifically is unique because we are not doing this for religious reasons or because it is our cultural norm.
“We are doing it because we found true love in it, and there are plenty of people like us who continue to ask us to keep going for them.
“People reach out to us, thanking us and asking us for advice – so there’s a bigger purpose here.
isn’t the only way to love, we want to normalise and
“Not the weird, religious, culty stuff but like normal adults who just decided that they want this relationship type.”;
The polyamorous ‘wives' make humorous videos about their unusual set-up
Jame said he was always a cheater in his monogamous relationships 
