GAZING at my reflection, I smile with satisfaction. With my defined jawline, sharp cheekbones and smooth skin, it may have cost me £10,000 to achieve this flawless face, but it was worth every penny.

In 2025, I became the youngest woman in Britain to have a facelift, and after sharing images on social media, I went viral. Fast-forward a year, and now I’m on a new quest, but it’s proving a lot more challenging than researching surgeons.

A woman with long wavy brown hair and highlights wearing a green off-the-shoulder top.Jade Mandongwe shows off the results of her £10,000 facelift – and says it was worth every penny Credit: Jade Mandongwe A woman with surgical markings on her face and chest.Jade pictured before the facelift in Turkey, which she opted to have to find the perfect wealthy man Credit: Jade Mandongwe

Single for the past 18 months, I want a perfect man to match my perfect face. I may be a successful solicitor, intelligent and independent, but when it comes to my relationship, I want a man who can look after me.

He needs to be wealthy and successful in his own career – earning at least £200,000 a year so he can pay my £1,300-a-month rent, buy me designer handbags, holidays and contribute to my lifestyle.

Friends have been horrified when I’ve told them, saying I’m unrealistic and it’s transactional, as opposed to looking for a genuine relationship.

But everyone has their own needs and wants, and I’m just being honest about mine. I want someone who can make my life feel easier, and I don’t think that’s too much to ask.

A person's face with surgical markings and bandages, indicating a cosmetic procedure.Jade says she was bruised and swollen for weeks after the surgery, and even wondered if she had done the right thing Credit: Jade Mandongwe A woman smiling and holding a glass of champagne at a restaurant.Jade pictured before her facelift Credit: Jade Mandongwe

People assume I must have grown up with low self-esteem or been bullied to , but I’ve always been very confident.

I wasn’t sitting at home hating myself because of how I looked, but I wanted to refine my features – details and aesthetics matter to me. It was never about trying to look like a new person, but becoming closer to who I envisioned myself to be.

I only told my mum and one close friend what I was planning – they were so supportive and told me to do what makes me happy.

I saved up for the surgery at a , and for weeks afterwards I was bruised and swollen. There were times when I was in pain and worried if I’d done the right thing, but I told myself it would be worth it.

I received a lot of hate online after I appeared on ITV’s in November last year, but all I had to do was look in the mirror and see the beautiful, confident woman staring back at me to know the trolls were wrong.

I’ve taken that confidence into my life, and I believe I deserve what I want in a man.

There’s a misconception about wanting a provider – people think it means you’re incapable of making your own money.

I’ve always worked and I’m very ambitious, but I’m also attracted to masculine energy and generosity, and men who want to make life easier for the woman they love.

Woman with surgical markings on her face and chest.Since having her facelift, Jade says she definitely gets more attention from men Credit: Jade Mandongwe A woman with long dark hair, wearing a low-cut ribbed halter top.I refuse to accept anything less than my dream man, says Jade Credit: Jade Mandongwe

For me, it’s less about being ‘kept’ and more about feeling cared for, protected and emotionally secure. And I would absolutely still work, because I enjoy having my own goals and independence.

Dating has been interesting. I’ve always been popular with men, but since having my facelift I definitely get more attention – not always from the right men, though. I had high hopes for a guy I met recently at the gym.

Successful, driven and generous, we had great chemistry. On our first date, I was upfront about what I was looking for – someone who would be comfortable financially supporting me if we became a couple.

He listened, and I felt he was on board. Then he stopped replying to messages – no calls, no explanation, he just vanished.

It was horrible, but I told myself the right man wouldn’t do that.

Whenever I feel despondent, I remind myself of the determination I had when it came to achieving my face, and why you should never give up on a dream, no matter what people say.

Last year, I was diagnosed with , which I think has contributed to me being a risk-taker with a high drive for the things I want in life, be that a facelift or a rich man. I don’t see it as something negative.

In fact, I welcome having it, and I don’t take any ADHD medication.

Friends are starting to settle down and I know time is passing, but I refuse to accept anything less than my dream man who will treat me like a goddess. He’s out there, and it’s only a matter of time before I find him.”