A PROUD traveller mum has shared some of the rules her son will have to follow as her grows up.
The mum, who goes by @ doll20212021 on TikTok, took to the social media platform to explain the traditions the tot will follow, including ditching school.
The mum explained the rules her son will have to follow as her grows upCredit: TikTok/@doll20212021
Her son will be expected to drop out of school and earn money when he’s old enoughCredit: tiktok/@doll20212021
First of all, baby Tom can rest easy, because he’ll never have to lift a finger when it comes to cleaning.
“There’s no such thing in for a traveller boy or traveller man to clean,” the mum explained as she cradled her adorable son.
Not only that, but she noted that her son will likely “be dropping out of school at a young age.”
Although the mum knew some people would disagree with her desire for her son to drop out of school early, she defended her decision and explained she’d rather have him go to work and earn .
But even when he starts to work the mum said she would never charge him rent, unlike some parents do,
And she’d never dream of kicking him out when he turns 18, or even after that.
As he gets older sleepovers are also off the table, at least at other people’s houses, but the mum said she’d let his friends stay with her.
That said, the mum said she would support her son if he did decide he wanted to stay in education and go to college, even though it’s not what she’d want him to do.
And although some strictly only marry within their own community, the mum said she wouldn’t mind if he tied the knot with a non-traveller, as long as he’s happy.
TRAVELLER TRADITIONS
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travellers maintain a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity, reflecting a deep connection to freedom and independence.
Strong family bonds: Family is central to traveller culture. Extended families often live and travel together, providing a strong support network. Marriages and social events are significant community affairs, reinforcing familial ties.
Distinct Language: Many travellers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that mixes elements of Irish, English, and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The traveller community often follows Roman , with religious festivals and milestones like baptisms, communions, and being particularly significant. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique celebrations: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are major social gatherings for travellers. These occasions are marked by elaborate preparations, vibrant attire, and communal participation.
Facts on gypsy and traveller communities
Typically, gypsies is a term used to describe Romani people who migrated to Europe from India while traveller refers to a person with either Irish, Scottish or English heritage.
Around 300,000 Gypsy, Roma and Irish travellers are thought to live in the UK.
All three groups come from nomadic ways of life, however, as it is increasingly difficult to find land to live on, many are moving into permanent housing.
They place high value on family life and often live close together even after reaching adult years and getting married.
Often the men are the breadwinners of the family while the women stay home.
While many English gypsy girls are allowed to drink alcohol and go on holiday with their friends before they get married, their Irish counterparts are not.
