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Your proposal is often one of the most memorable moments of your life.
While it should create lasting memories for those involved, the romantic occasion shouldn't leave a permanent mark—especially given the backlash one couple is facing for their disrespectful and illegal actions.
A couple faced backlash after sharing a photo of their proposalCredit: Getty
Reddit users criticized the couple for their complete disregard for the environmentCredit: Reddit
Images have begun circulating on Reddit, depicting a proposal that occurred in the Blue Mountains of Australia.
The viral photo showcases stunning scenery, but at the bottom, you can see a heart etched into the rock, stating, "Kiri, will you marry me?".
Outraged social media users expressed their disgust over the act, questioning why some believe such behavior is acceptable.
The frustrated Redditor stated in the post : "Another view of the etching of a proposal into rock at a protected national park."
"I'm baffled by all the 'it's not that deep, there are thousands of rocks' comments. Has respect for nature and the social contract disappeared?"
Other Reddit users agreed, asserting that the proposal was merely an attempt to gain attention—without any consideration for the environment.
"This proposal was made for 'views' rather than love. They are certainly enjoying the attention," remarked one user.
"Anyone who would do that, and anyone who would marry someone who would do that, should not have children," another added.
"Can't people who want to vandalize protected property at least use chalk?" a third user questioned.
Regrettably, others pointed out that this isn't the first instance of such behavior—referencing other significant landmarks and historical sites that have also been vandalized by thoughtless visitors. "The barracks at [location] are COVERED in people's initials and names. I couldn't believe it when I saw it. Who does that in a place like that?" commented one individual.
In a statement to Kidspot , which initially reported on the incident, the Department of Climate Change, Energy, the Environment and Water expressed disappointment over such behavior, emphasizing that it is strongly discouraged in New South Wales national parks.
Not only can this damage the natural environment, but it can also affect Aboriginal Cultural Heritage in many areas.
How to Ace a Proposal
Considering proposing? Follow this checklist by Fabulous’ Deputy Editor Josie Griffiths to increase your chances of a "yes"…
- Timing is key – the average Brit waits between 18 months and two years to get engaged. However, you might feel ready after six months, or decide to wait over five years to pop the question. Only you truly know when the moment is right, and this is not a decision to rush. Falling in love is wonderful, but most relationships do not end in marriage for good reasons.
- Pay attention – ideally, your partner hasn’t reached the point of leaving their laptop open with 'hints' for rings they like. While you want the ring to be a surprise, it should also be something they would love to wear for the rest of their life. You need to listen carefully to any comments your partner makes about other people's rings, their preferences, and what matters most to them—size, clarity, specific details. If you’re uncertain, or if your partner dislikes surprises, it’s best to propose with a placeholder ring and then choose the real one together.
- Family matters – tradition suggests asking the father for his daughter’s hand in marriage, but it can be more complex today. Your partner might be closer to their step-dad, or may want their mother to walk them down the aisle, so it would be wise to consult them. Alternatively, they might find it odd if you approached their parents first, in which case you might skip that step altogether. Consider speaking to their closest friends or letting your partner's best friend choose the ring. These details matter and could lead to complications if handled incorrectly.
- Plan the setting – does your partner dislike being the center of attention, or would they be disappointed if you proposed at home, feeling you didn’t put in enough 'effort'? Choose the perfect location for your proposal, considering how busy it will be, whether you can capture good photos, and other logistics. A proposal at the top of a mountain may sound appealing, but your partner might not appreciate it if they’re sweaty and not dressed for a photo. Personally, I can’t think of anything worse than a public proposal where everyone is waiting for your answer—like in front of friends, at a restaurant, or announced at an event. Keep all this in mind
Eze Chidiebere Paul
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