A WOMAN who gets herself all dolled up for parents evening has insisted she doesn’t understand why other mums don’t.
Mary took to her TikTok page to share a video of herself ready for the event, looking as though she was about to head out for a posh meal.
Mary took to TikTok to hit back at those who “judge” her for dressing up for parents’ eveningCredit: TikTok/@maryjjpr
She opts for a furry coat, high heels and an evening bag for the school eventCredit: TikTok/@maryjjpr
She can usually be found in a more casual ensembleCredit: TikTok/@maryjjpr
“I’m just about to go to and my friend thinks I’m weird because I wear , a furry coat and this is my little parents’ evening bag.” she said, showing off her ensemble.
“Like aren’t we all doing this?”
She added the hashtags “parentseve #heels #dressup #mutton”.
People in the comments were immediately divided as to whether or not they agreed with Mary, with one writing: “I’m a and I judge parents.
“I feel like both sides judge – I do appreciate parents that make the effort and smell nice.”
“I’m a parents evening tart too, I got you girl,” another added.
“I don’t do the whole heels but I absolutely make a effort every time I go to the school,” a third wrote.
“I’m representing my child and I’ll be damned if someone thinks lower of my child because of the way I decided to dress!”
“I’m a teacher and a Gen Z girls girl, so this would’ve made my day,” someone else insisted.
“To all the comments worried about teachers judging them- I promise we’ve just spent 7/8 hours working from early in the morning and 6 of those with sticky children / pre teens, we are sweaty, stinky, covered in pen, absolutely knackered and disheveled.
“I promise you we are only thinking about getting through the evening, there’s never any judgement.”
While others were firmly on the other side of the fence.
“No way – I wore my dog walking attire complete with mud and hair!” one laughed.
“It’s not a fashion show, it’s just a bunch of teachers 15 years younger than me telling me my kid could do better.”
“No I am absolutely not changing out of my usual daily attire to go to a 10 minute chat with the teacher,” another agreed.
“Teacher sees me everyday in my mum clothes she’d think I was a right weirdo going in all dolled up.”
What to wear on the school run
PTA Chairwoman Emma Kent’s School Run Style Tips:
- Avoid the Gym Gear Trap:
- Change out of workout clothes for the afternoon pick-up to avoid looking lazy or unhygienic.
- Leave Pyjamas at Home:
- Never turn up at school in pyjamas as it suggests a lack of effort and can lead to unflattering labels.
- Be Cautious with Bold Fashion Choices:
- Avoid leopard-print leggings and mixing boho pieces with animal print. Stick to styles that suit you best.
- Carry an Emergency Kit:
- Keep a spare top or nice jacket in the car for unexpected spills or stains, and oversized sunglasses to hide tired eyes.
- Embrace Bargains:
- Proudly share thrift finds but avoid second-hand pyjamas or swimsuits without hygiene stickers.
- Don’t Be a Copycat:
- Avoid copying another mum’s style too closely to prevent gossip. Praise the other mum’s taste if it happens accidentally.
- Dress Age-Appropriately:
- Avoid overly revealing outfits and stick to classy, not trashy, looks, especially if over 35.
- Always Wear a Bra:
- Ensure you’re wearing a bra to avoid awkward conversations with teachers and unwanted attention.
- Choose Jeans Carefully:
- Avoid low-slung skinny jeans that create a muffin top. Opt for mom jeans for a flattering and comfortable fit.
- Beware of School Gate Gossips:
- Avoid showing up in scruffy clothing or with wet hair as there are always mums at the gates who will notice.
- Brag About Your Bag:
- Use a stylish yet practical tote bag instead of a bag for life from a supermarket.
- Ditch Crocs and Socks:
- Avoid pairing Crocs with socks. Opt for versatile Chelsea boots for a stylish and comfortable look.
“I don’t give af,” a third insisted.
“I’m a qualified speech and language therapist with my own practice and let me tell you I do the school run looking homeless.
“As soon as I speak to school they know I know my stuff regardless of how I look.”
“It’s joggers/leggings and hoodie and claw clip for me personally,” someone else wrote.
“Nooo too much!” another groaned.
Eze Chidiebere Paul
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