My scruff neighbour is messing up my fence after I spent £300 on it, so I got revenge but don’t know if I’m in the wrong

Published on August 19, 2025 at 01:22 PM
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A HOMEOWNER has been left fuming over how his neighbour is damaging his new £300 fence by piling rubbish against the other side. 

The disgruntled man shared a video showing how his fence panels were starting to bend under the weight of the wooden items. 

Rubbish leaning against a new fence.
A man showed how he was left fuming over his neighbour piling rubbish against the fence he paid for

A clip shared on the @cmb_ll1 account showed the rubbish piled high against the fence dividing their two gardens. 

The man said: “Didn’t pay over £300 for new fence panels for my scruff neighbour to lean rubbish up.. making them bend.

“AM I IN THE WRONG?

“She’s doing it purposely.. that whole garden where her rubbish could go.. yet she puts it up our fence.”

In the clip, he could be seen taking action and pushing some of the long wooden planks back onto the floor so they weren’t resting against the fence. 

Many people were quick to chime in on the dilemma, with many supporting him. 

One said: “If the items your neighbor is leaning against the fence are causing damage (e.g., rotting, leaning, or structural issues), or if they are preventing you from accessing or maintaining your side of the fence, then you may have grounds to address the issue. 

“However fences are often considered jointly owned structures, even if one neighbour paid for it, if it sits on the property line.”

Another added: “You can make reports to your council about it.”

And a third commented: “had the same issue, now the concrete post is leaning.”

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New fence panels damaged by neighbor's rubbish.
The man filmed himself pushing the rubbish away from the fence

However, some people defended the neighbour.

One said: “It’s called a shared fence even if you paid for it I would of done the same tho.”

Another said: “Isn’t that the back of their own fence panel?”

When it comes to fence rules , altering one without permission can result in a fine or legal action. 

The first and most recommended step is to talk to your neighbour as many disputes can be resolved amicably through calm discussion.

Previously, we shared how a neighbour let his fence fall down so the other side grew plants in the gaps, but then got a complaint.

What are your rights over a fence row?

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IT'S very important to know your rights if you are embroiled in a fence row with a neighbour.

How do I know which side I own?

A boundary feature can be a fence, wall, hedge, ditch, piece of wire, or sometimes even just the edge of a driveway.

The only way to know for certain who owns what side and to avoid any neighbour disputes, is to refer to the title plan or  Land Registry

In this, the T mark is used to indicate who the boundary belongs to and therefore who is responsible for its upkeep, say pros at  Jacksons Fencing .

Larger developments tend to have some indication provided by the builder, but there are no hard and fast rules

People often think they are responsible for the left (or right) hand boundary wherever they live, but there isn’t any legal basis for this.

You can check with HM Land Registry to see which boundary feature you are responsible for.

Often  households  can’t get hold of the paperwork but experts say they shouldn’t panic.

Homeowners can guess who owns the fence by checking where the  rails  are.

Pros say: “The fence is typically facing away from their property so that their neighbour gets the ‘good’ side. 

“This is the most secure way of facing fencing so there are no rails for anyone to use to climb into your garden. 

“This is then repeated with the neighbour on the other side to ensure that each home has both a ‘good’ and ‘bad’ fence side.”

Walls and fences are often built on the land of the  boundary’s owner  with the edge of the wall marking the limit.

While professionals agree a glimpse at the fence can give you a hint, it’s not foolproof – so you can’t be certain.

Fines and punishment

It is recommended to always check legal documents before making changes to avoid  hefty fines .

There is no  law  that the neighbour has to get the good side of the fence, so it’s completely up to whoever owns the fence. 

Fencing pros have suggested: “It may be worth selecting a double-sided panel with no ‘bad’ side as both sides look the same and rails are concealed within the fence panel.”

If one boundary backs onto a road or footpath you can  install the panels  with the rails on the inside

But if it’s installed on the outside, it can provide an “easy ladder for burglars to enter your garden”.

The Royal Institution of Chartered Surveyors (RICS) and the Property Litigation Association have created a mediation service to help neighbours resolve disputes over their property boundaries without resorting to court action. 

RICS also provides a list of surveyors who could assist in boundary disputes.

If a dispute continues, it is ultimately a court that makes decisions, but they do not like such disputes being put before them.

Changing a boundary

If you want to change an existing boundary, such as replacing an old fence with a new one, we always recommend discussing with your neighbour first and making sure it is all agreed.

The registered titles can help you to reach an agreement, but only if this information has been added.

In terms of decorations on a fence legal advisers  recommended asking around over who actually first installed it.

But they also urged caution before getting to work on amending the fence without getting more certainty yourself – since there is a danger of actually being prosecuted for  criminal  damage.

How high can a garden fence be?

The height of the fence is measured from your ground level, this can have an impact when, due to slopes in the ground, your garden may be at a higher level than your  neighbours ‘.

garden  fence can be as high as 100m but you need to get planning permission if it’s over than 2m.

However, there are some complications to this.

If you are thinking about front  garden fences , restrictions state that fences alongside a driveway can be a maximum of 1m or 3ft.

You would need to get planning permission for putting a trellis on a fence of 2m.

But, if any plant that you grow on that trellis exceeds 2m, you do not need to obtain a permit for the  growing plant.

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