A MOTHER has sparked a fierce debate after slating a certain type of parent on the hectic school runs.
Millions of parents are getting into the swing of their new routine after their kids enjoyed six weeks off from .
One mum sparked a fierce debate after sharing her thoughts of parents rocking pyjamas when dropping kids off to school
According to the TikToker, parents should make themselves ‘look a little bit presentable’ at the school gates
Now one mum, only known as @ Ms.Malemba on , has shared her hot take on how fellow parents should come to the school drop-offs.
The woman, who works full-time in the industry, took to social media to share her thoughts – and her opinion left thousands totally divided.
”One thing you’ll never catch me doing is drop off my kids to school in my pyjamas,” she said in the video .
”I do not care what anybody says. There’s absolutely zero reasons why parents should drop their children in their .
”You’re telling me you couldn’t just find one piece of trousers, one piece of to put on? Couldn’t even have one dash of a two-second shower to drop your kids to school?”
According to the mum, who understands the vicious and dark struggle with , she’s also dealt with the condition.
However, despite staying in her bed with pyjamas for days on end, she always made the effort to change into something else for the school run.
”I stayed in bed in my PJs and never left the bed for days at a time and but when I did dropped my ne child at the time to school I always did change. So yes it can be done.”
She went on: ”You’re there on school corners just talking, talking, talking in your pyjamas that you’ve slept with? I honestly think that’s so wrong.
”Make yourself look a little bit presentable, like, it doesn’t take that much.
”Just give yourself five minutes to put on proper attire to drop your child off to school.
”Yeah, your child might look all clean – they’ve had a , you’ve brushed their hair, you’ve put their pigtails up and if it’s a little boy you’ve combed their hair.
”They look good, they look smart – that’s amazing and I’m so happy for you, mum.
”But at the end of the day, you also need to represent yourself.”
What to wear on the school run
PTA Chairwoman Emma Kent’s School Run Style Tips:
- Avoid the Gym Gear Trap:
- Change out of workout clothes for the afternoon pick-up to avoid looking lazy or unhygienic.
- Leave Pyjamas at Home:
- Never turn up at school in pyjamas as it suggests a lack of effort and can lead to unflattering labels.
- Be Cautious with Bold Fashion Choices:
- Avoid leopard-print leggings and mixing boho pieces with animal print. Stick to styles that suit you best.
- Carry an Emergency Kit:
- Keep a spare top or nice jacket in the car for unexpected spills or stains, and oversized sunglasses to hide tired eyes.
- Embrace Bargains:
- Proudly share thrift finds but avoid second-hand pyjamas or swimsuits without hygiene stickers.
- Don’t Be a Copycat:
- Avoid copying another mum’s style too closely to prevent gossip. Praise the other mum’s taste if it happens accidentally.
- Dress Age-Appropriately:
- Avoid overly revealing outfits and stick to classy, not trashy, looks, especially if over 35.
- Always Wear a Bra:
- Ensure you’re wearing a bra to avoid awkward conversations with teachers and unwanted attention.
- Choose Jeans Carefully:
- Avoid low-slung skinny jeans that create a muffin top. Opt for mom jeans for a flattering and comfortable fit.
- Beware of School Gate Gossips:
- Avoid showing up in scruffy clothing or with wet hair as there are always mums at the gates who will notice.
- Brag About Your Bag:
- Use a stylish yet practical tote bag instead of a bag for life from a supermarket.
- Ditch Crocs and Socks:
- Avoid pairing Crocs with socks. Opt for versatile Chelsea boots for a stylish and comfortable look.
SOCIAL MEDIA REACTS
Posted just three days ago, the mum’s clip has taken the platform by storm, amassing close to a whopping 200k views – and sparking a fierce debate.
People were quick to share their thoughts and while the mum’s comments aren’t shocking, many claimed she was being judgmental.
One person said: ”I’ve never done it but there is reasons. I know people in the pits of depression that struggle to even get out of bed.”
Another chimed in: ”This is a tired topic, let’s be grateful they are still dropping them.”
Meanwhile, someone else wrote: ”Ohhh hell no! Not even depression can catch me doing this & another thing is i don’t like shame & unnecessary attention lol.”
A fourth who works in education shared their take on the subject, writing: ”I’ve known mums that look stunning everyday and children lacking in areas, home is dysfunctional, children struggling (but mum always looks presentable) then I’ve known mums that dress less aesthetically pleasing and the most phenomenal mum I’ve known.
”I don’t judge.”
”I think it makes the teachers think of you badly – I wouldn’t want that to rub on my child,” a viewer commented.
