THE INTERNET has been left in disbelief after a mum revealed her ex husband’s new wife looks almost identical to her.
Not only could the duo be mistaken for sisters, but people reckon it’s a sign the mum’s ex isn’t really over her.
The pair shared how they make coparenting work for themCredit: tiktok/@coparentingchaos6
People couldn’t believe how similar the pair lookCredit: tiktok/@coparentingchaos6
Hayley, who is the biological mum of the kids, and Morgan, who they refer to as the “bonus mum” appear to get on better than you might expect though.
In fact, they regularly post videos of themselves on and even wear matching outfits.
In one viral clip, Hayley and Morgan address how they establish certain boundaries, given their unusual relationship.
“We don’t really have any jealousy, maybe way back in the beginning we might’ve had some but we don’t even remember that,” Hayley said.
Meanwhile, Morgan explained that despite not being the girls‘ biological mum, she still helped raise them and considers herself a parent to them, something Hayley agreed with.
“We both raised those girls,” Morgan said.
Morgan also shared an example of how comfortable she feels acting as a parent to Hayley’s kids, and said she took her daughter to get her ears pierced without asking first.
She said she knew Hayley would be ok with it, so didn’t feel the need to check first.
Hayley agreed, and said she wants Morgan to experience what it’s like to be a mum to the girls too.
But despite their positive attitude and friendship, some still couldn’t get over the fact the pair look so similar.
In another clip the pair can be seen wearing matching denim shorts, an electric blue tank top, with gold necklaces and their glossy black hair styled in a similar wavy style.
“I think he has a type,” someone commented on the clip, but Hayley and Morgan are in on the joke, as one of them replied to the comment and said: “He orders the same thing at every restaurant.”
“Dude cloned his ex wife to be his current wife,” someone else commented.
And a third said: “I understand having a general type but if you’re replacing one with a literal clone it can’t be worth the cost of a .”
Meanwhile, others thought the fact the pair look so alike was a sign the dad wasn’t really over Hayley.
“When they look like twins he’s clearly not moved on… sorry not sorry,” one wrote.
No matter what people might think about their unique situation, there’s no denying it’s working for them.
Hayley and Morgan share glimpses into their lives on their shared account @coparentingchaos6, where they boast over 122k followers.
Different parenting techniques
Here are some widely recognised methods:
Authoritative Parenting
This technique will often foster independence, self-discipline, and high self-esteem in children.
It is often considered the most effective, this technique is where parents set clear expectations – enforcing rules – whilst also showing warmth and support.
Authoritarian Parenting
This is opposite to authoritative parenting, as it is where the parent sets high demands but is low on responsiveness.
It involves ensuring the child is obedient and often employ punitive measures. While this can lead to disciplined behaviour, it may also result in lower self-esteem and social skills in children.
Permissive Parenting
Permissive parents tend to be indulgent and lenient, often taking on a role more akin to a friend than an authority figure. They are highly responsive but lack demandingness, granting children a lot of freedom. This method can nurture creativity and a free-spirited nature but may also result in poor self-regulation and difficulties with authority.
Uninvolved Parenting
Uninvolved or neglectful parenting is marked by low responsiveness and low demands. Parents in this category offer minimal guidance, nurturing, or attention. This often leaves children feeling neglected, which can have significant negative effects on their emotional and social development.
Helicopter Parenting
Helicopter parents are extremely involved and overprotective, frequently micromanaging their children’s lives. Although their goal is to protect and support, this approach can hinder a child’s ability to develop independence and problem-solving skills.
Free-Range Parenting
Free-range parenting encourages children to explore and learn from their surroundings with minimal parental interference. This method promotes independence and resilience but requires a safe and supportive environment to be successful.
Attachment Parenting
According to Marriage.com , Attachment parenting focuses on physical closeness and emotional bonding, often through practices such as co-sleeping and baby-wearing. This approach aims to create secure attachments and emotional well-being, but demands significant time and emotional commitment from parents.
Each of these parenting techniques has its own set of strengths and weaknesses. The key is to find a balanced approach that aligns with the family’s values and meets the child’s needs for a healthy, happy upbringing.
Eze Chidiebere Paul
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