New Poll Reveals Millions of Brits Choose Civility Over Knowing Their Neighbors' Names

Published on November 11, 2025 at 09:55 AM
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MILLIONS of Brits don’t know the names of their neighbours – with 69 per cent preferring to be “civil” rather than “close”.

A poll of 2,000 and found despite living in close proximity to others, only 55 per cent actually know what to call their neighbours when they bump into them.

Young woman in yellow shirt and denim overalls laughing through a wrought-iron fence.A recent poll has found Britons aren’t close with their neighboursCredit: Getty Aerial view of a residential neighborhood with houses, cars, and green spaces.Only 55 per cent of people know their neighbour’s nameCredit: Lee McLean / SWNS

And although previous conversations have been had about family, and , 21 per cent can’t remember any of it and so avoid pleasantries as much as possible.

With 27 per cent admitting friendlier neighbours could help with feelings of loneliness.

Johnny Caddick, chief executive of rental brand MODA , which commissioned the research, said: “A sense of community can have a real impact on how happy people feel in their homes, yet our survey shows many still don’t even know their neighbours’ names.

“It’s a reminder that modern life can make it harder to connect, even when we live side by side.

“By creating opportunities to meet and share experiences, we can help make those everyday moments of recognition and support feel more natural.

“Small connections, a chat in the lift or by the front door, are what turn a building into a neighbourhood.

“The research highlights how much people value that, and how many would like more of it.”

The study went on to find 90 per cent of said being part of a community is important to them – the highest of any other generation.

While 23 per cent would prefer a closer relationship with their neighbour.

And 40 per cent of residents feel lonely and think friendlier relationships with their neighbours would help.

But if a new neighbour moved in, 41 per cent of all respondents would say hello if they crossed paths – but not go out of their way to do it.

Of those who would like a better with those living nearby, the top thing stopping them is not wanting to seem intrusive (42 per cent).

While 34 per cent are down on themselves, to the point they assume other people wouldn’t be interested in getting to know them.

But 34 per cent would be encouraged to make overtures if they knew they shared similar interests, and 26 per cent might do so at a shared community event.

Almost half of renters (45 per cent) said a new resident programme would make it easier to get know neighbours compared to 38 per cent of , according to the OnePoll.com figures.

Johnny Caddick for MODA added: “The survey underlines something we’ve known for a long time.

“People want to feel part of a community, but too often the structures to make that happen just aren’t there.

“That’s a gap we need to bridge if we want people to feel settled and supported where they live.

“Neighbourliness is about more than being polite, it’s the foundation of feeling safe, connected and included.

“The findings show how much appetite there is for stronger connections, and it’s clear that modern housing needs to do more to make that possible.

“When people are given the right spaces and opportunities to come together, they don’t just share a postcode, they share a community.”

People and children in a neighborhood with electric cars.Many London residents reported feeling lonely and think getting to know their neighbours would helpCredit: Getty Aerial view of a residential neighborhood with many houses and winding roads.Nearly 30 per cent of people polled said a community event would help break the iceCredit: Emma Trimble / SWNS

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